Your marriage is ending and the same fears keep rushing through your head:

  • The house: “Will I have enough money to keep it?”
  • The bills: “How will I be able to pay them?”
  • Health insurance: “Will I be able to get coverage?”
  • Retirement: “Will there be any money left to save for the future?”

In divorce, all of these fears are normal and have something in common: Money. When it comes to money and divorce, there’s one issue that’s more emotional, controversial and challenging for spouses to resolve than any other. Whether you call it alimony or divorce maintenance, coming to agreement on a matter that will require an ex-husband or wife to give money to the other ex-spouse to support their future lifestyle after the marriage is challenging, to say the least.

And the topic of alimony in Illinois is a complicated one.

* Note: For the purposes of this article, the terms alimony, maintenance, divorce maintenance and spousal support are used interchangeably.

Divorce maintenance in Illinois: What’s the purpose?

Alimony/maintenance is one of four topics that are discussed and agreed upon in mediation along with:

Spousal maintenance is strictly based on need and is gender-neutral, meaning that both women and men can be eligible to receive payments. The purpose of alimony is not to unfairly reward one spouse or punish the other. Instead, the idea is to allow the two ex-spouses to live somewhat similarly for a period of time after the marriage ends.

Maintenance is meant to assist the lower-earning spouse as they transition from married to single life. Giving them some time to get back on their feet and become self-supporting after the dissolution of a marriage.

There are a few things you need to understand about the challenges of determining spousal support Illinois:

  • While state legislation offers practitioners a formula, in our extensive experience, more clients choose to deviate from the guideline, than follow it;
  • While inflation has returned to more manageable levels, the cost-of-living remains stubbornly high and shows no signs of abating, which in turn, significantly impacts a couple’s ability to afford their separate post-marital lifestyles – regardless of how much maintenance is being paid or received;
  • The Tax Cuts and Jobs Act (TCJA) eliminated the deduction of alimony payments for payors, and recipients are no longer required to report payments as taxable income on their federal returns, but still may do so on their Illinois state returns, further complicating their post-divorce tax picture;
  • While on the surface, it might appear as if this tax change benefits the recipient and hurts the payor, it actually negatively impacts both parties;
  • This topic has more to do with money and negotiation and less to do with laws;
  • There is more than meets the eye on this issue and this matter is too difficult (and emotionally charged) to try to resolve on your own.

That’s why you’ll get the best outcome by mediating with us.

"Unfortunately, the Illinois Maintenance Guidelines along with the modified tax treatment of maintenance resulting from the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act have left Illinois couples even more confused about this complex and emotionally charged topic than ever before. So instead of trying to figure it out on your own, or getting caught up in an endless loop with lawyers, mediate your divorce with me.

I’ll guide you through my proven, step-by-step process and help you and your spouse negotiate and come to an agreement on alimony that's realistic and fair to both of you."

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The Illinois maintenance calculator how it works

One way maintenance in Illinois may be determined is by using a guideline calculator. Provided they meet the requirements to use it, the guideline can help Illinois couples avoid the endless battles often associated with the topic. And minimize potential differences in maintenance settlement amounts between similar couples. Under the guideline formula a maintenance award would equal 33 1/3 percent of the payer’s net income minus 25 percent of the payee’s net income. This amount cannot exceed 40 percent of the parties’ combined net income when added to the payee’s net income.

In addition to the amount, the formula provides Illinois couples a duration for how long maintenance should last and varies depending on how long the couple’s marriage lasted. For example, if the marriage lasted 5 years, maintenance payments would last one year and two months. But if the couple has been married for 20 years, it may last 20 years or be permanent. There are also a wide variety of other permutations in between.

The Illinois maintenance formula has created new problems.

Unfortunately, the alimony guideline calculator has significant limitations. There are also several instances in which the formula or its calculated amount cannot be used.

Such as:

  • When the calculated result for spousal maintenance exceeds the 40% threshold;
  • When a couple’s income exceeds a certain income threshold;
  • If the paying party receives a bonus which is based on a factor that can’t be predicted, such as with company performance;
  • If the paying party has variable income the way a salesperson on commissions would;
  • If the paying party has recently received a significant raise or promotion;
  • If the paying party is compensated in a non-traditional way like receiving stocks or options.

In all of these cases, the formula won’t work.

So you and your husband or wife will have no other choice but to negotiate this issue. Which is very difficult to do, given the very nature of divorce.

There are also issues when it comes to how long alimony in Illinois will last.

Take, for example, a 5-year marriage. The alimony duration formula in Illinois states that spousal maintenance typically lasts one to two years. Let’s say you have 1-year-old twins and you and your spouse decided that you would stay home with the children. While it’s certainly possible for you to return to work immediately after your divorce, it may not be realistic. It might make more sense to seek employment once the kids are in school full-time, which would be at least 4 years from now. How would you support yourself after alimony ended but before you had gainful employment?

On the other end of the spectrum, let’s say you’ve been married 25 years and are 60 years old. Per the formula, you’d have to pay maintenance until you’re 85. How would you be able to retire? Even if you gave your ex-spouse 50% of all retirement assets, per the formula, you wouldn’t be able to retire until you were 85 years old.

In both cases, the formula would be unusable because you’d still need to negotiate maintenance duration.

And just like determining an amount, duration is not so easy to agree on.

You can choose to avoid the maintenance calculator, even if you’re eligible to use it.

As you’ve just learned, there are several instances where, depending on how much money a couple earns or how they’re compensated, the formula is useless. So if any of those situations are like yours, you’ll need to agree without using it. But even if you do meet the criteria to use the formula, you and your spouse may not be satisfied with the result.

You can choose not to follow its recommendation and negotiate instead.

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When discussing Illinois alimony, don’t forget about cost of living.

As if figuring out maintenance in Illinois wasn’t already a complicated endeavor, we’ve got yet one more factor to add to the conversation. And that’s the cost of living.

Say your marital home was in Lincoln Square, Chicago. And you’re the one paying alimony. And your spouse decides to move the kids to Northbrook, post-divorce. Better schools, and all… You might think that moving out of the city, and into the burbs, would represent significant savings. Guess again!

Northbrook is actually 32.2% more expensive to live in than Chicago! So, do you pay them based on what it cost to live in Lincoln Square? Or do you pay them based on what it will cost to live in Northbrook?

Good question…

There’s more than one type of IL maintenance.

When thinking of maintenance, most people think of the “check in the mail” approach, whereby one party would make alimony payments of a “regular amount” to the other party. The same way an employee would receive a “regular” paycheck. And while that’s the most common way to go, there are two other types of maintenance available to Illinois couples as you’ll soon find out. These types of maintenance may be used on their own or in combination with each other depending on the couple’s unique situation.

In addition, some people feel very strongly against having to write a check monthly to their ex. So there are also other, more creative ways to resolve this highly contentious subject. For example, divorcing couples will sometimes trade spousal support for equitable distribution. Or do an alimony buyout. Or pay alimony in one lump sum.

The point is there isn’t any such thing as “typical maintenance” payments.

And there are many different ways of settling this issue.

The three types of alimony in Illinois:

As you just learned, there are actually three different types of alimony Illinois couples can consider in their divorce. And they are:

1. Permanent or impermanent maintenance

As the title suggests, Illinois allows for the payment of maintenance until one of the parties dies. However, that doesn’t mean maintenance always continues indefinitely in permanent maintenance cases. Illinois divorce maintenance is still subject to termination events, such as the recipient’s remarriage.

Illinois divorce maintenance agreements can also contain other terminating events to be defined at the time of agreement thus making ‘permanent’ maintenance impermanent. For example, a caveat may be that permanent maintenance terminates upon the retirement of the spouse who is paying.

In our experience, individuals who receive permanent divorce maintenance awards are typically older, have been in long-term marriages, and/or limited earning capacity, perhaps due to limited formal education or staying home to raise children while their spouse furthered their career.

Illinois alimony agreements may also award permanent maintenance to individuals who have a medical condition that prevents them from being self-sufficient.

2. Maintenance in gross

This is maintenance is paid in one lump sum at the time of divorce, or relatively close to it, perhaps in a limited number of installments. While less common than other types of Illinois divorce maintenance, it can sometimes be used by specific individuals to, in effect, “pre-pay” their maintenance obligation to gain certain tax advantages. An arrangement in which maintenance in gross is used appears quite a bit like a property settlement that one might see during equitable distribution.

When considering this type of divorce maintenance, one must be cautious of the discount rate used for present value calculations and be cognizant of the impact of terminating events, or lack thereof.

3. Rehabilitative maintenance

The third type of divorce maintenance that Illinois allows for is rehabilitative maintenance, also known as “reviewable maintenance” or “periodic maintenance.” This type of maintenance may be paid for a short, fixed period of time or an indefinite one with periodic review. The idea of rehabilitative maintenance is to allow the recipient spouse some time to “get back on their feet” and enjoy on their own a similar post-marital lifestyle as the one enjoyed while married.

For those recipients of rehabilitative maintenance who have a college degree or the means by which to earn a comparable standard of living, the period of time for which it is offered is usually short and fixed. The idea is to give the recipient spouse both time and an incentive to become self-sufficient. Once the period of time is satisfied, the maintenance is terminated.

In cases where it’s unclear whether the recipient spouse will be able to become self-sufficient in a finite period of time, rehabilitative maintenance (also known as “reviewable maintenance”) is usually awarded for an open-ended period of time. In this case, the agreement would outline a review date and the parties would reconvene to determine if an extension of the maintenance is required. In limited cases, there are times when a fixed date is set and the burden to request an extension is placed upon the recipient.

It should be noted that the recipient party is required to make a good faith effort to become self-sufficient. If it is determined they did not, maintenance may be terminated immediately.

There is more than meets the eye when it comes to Illinois alimony.

Since every couple’s situation is different, alimony is not a one-size-fits-all matter. Coming to an agreement that’s fair requires more than a wild guess or passing conversation for spouses. And as you’re starting to see, there’s a lot involved in this highly complex topic. Not only that but there are many places you can make expensive mistakes with far-reaching consequences.

The issue of divorce maintenance is much too complex and emotionally charged in most cases for you to attempt to determine on your own.

When you involve lawyers, it’s a problem.

If you go the lawyer route, your divorce attorneys can drag out your negotiations for years.

Fighting in circles. Around and around. In a gray area where no one’s right. All while billing you their ridiculous hourly fees.

That is, until neither you nor your husband or wife has any money left to keep paying your legal fees. And there’s no money left for divorce maintenance! Just another reason it’s better to avoid involving lawyers in your divorce negotiations.

When a judge gets involved, it’s a problem.

If alimony can’t be successfully resolved between you, your spouse, and your respective attorneys, your case will continue to litigation in court. But you need to understand something here: In a litigated divorce, a judge will decide how spousal support will be addressed. Yikes! That means the family law judge gets to dictate (on a case-by-case basis) the terms of your settlement in court and tell you what amount you’ll receive or have to pay.

And you might wind up with an alimony outcome you don’t find fair or that doesn’t meet your needs.

That’s why it’s better to negotiate an amount and duration that both you and your husband or wife find fair. And negotiation is the cornerstone of divorce mediation. In mediation, you get to decide – and come to an agreement you both agree is fair, out of court – instead of letting a stranger decide your future.

You’ll get the best result by mediating your no-fault divorce with us.

Using our extensive financial knowledge of the complex matters of alimony and maintenance, we’ll discuss the different types of maintenance permitted in Illinois and help you determine which type(s) may be applicable in your particular situation. And explore the feasibility of using some combination of alimony types in conjunction with child support and equitable distribution, as all three topics are interconnected.

We’ll actively guide you through our comprehensive budgeting process, which reflects both your marital expenses and your projected expenses after divorce. So we can take a close look together at what each of you earns, spends, and will need to move forward.

And determine how, if at all, the division of your marital property, debts, and expenses related to your children will factor in when determining an amount and duration. We’ll then help you negotiate a maintenance arrangement that you both find fair and that will best allow you to fulfill your financial obligations after you’re divorced.

Equitable Mediation enables you to get a fair maintenance outcome.

Why be forced to accept a settlement created by a family law attorney or judge when you can have a direct say in your financial future instead?

If you want to arrive at a maintenance agreement that’s fair to each of you and doesn’t bankrupt you in the process, mediate your divorce with Equitable Mediation.

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Guide to Chicago Divorce Mediation Services

Divorce mediation is a process in which a couple works with a neutral, unbiased third party, known as a divorce mediator, to help them resolve the issues of divorce. It offers couples a more peaceful alternative to litigation when ending a marriage. As a personalized process tailored to your specific circumstances, mediation provides a supportive environment that focuses on problem-solving rather than confrontation. The objective is to help both parties work together to reach a resolution that addresses the needs of all parties, including those of any children involved.

Mediation’s goal is to help you and your spouse find mutually beneficial (“win-win”) solutions. Unlike traditional court proceedings, which are often “win-lose.” Mediation enables couples to address both the legal matters required by law and issues outside the scope of typical divorce litigation. These may include future co-parenting arrangements as children grow older, introducing children to new romantic partners, or creative financial solutions, such as delaying the sale of a home. This comprehensive approach enables both parties to make informed decisions about their future while maintaining control over the outcome.

Perhaps most significantly, mediation is also the most cost-effective path forward for divorcing couples. Traditional litigation can be costly and time-consuming, with costs exceeding $100,000, whereas mediation helps parties reach an agreement in a fraction of the time and for a fraction of the cost. This efficiency not only saves money but also reduces the emotional strain on all involved parties, allowing them to move forward with their lives more quickly and positively.

In Illinois, divorce mediation is conducted either privately or publicly. Private mediation is not mandated by the court and is entered into by the parties voluntarily, with negotiations taking place outside of the courtroom. Whereas public mediation is court-ordered and mandated by a judge in an attempt to prevent the parties from reaching litigation. It may or may not take place in a courtroom.
Private mediation is not mandated by the court or a judge. The couple chooses to mediate first, and do so, voluntarily. So if you and your spouse both want to use mediation, you’d hire a private divorce mediator like Joe, which is typically done before you file for divorce. Joe will then guide you through his comprehensive mediation process and help you identify, discuss, negotiate and resolve all of the issues surrounding your divorce, privately and confidentially.

On the other hand, if you choose to litigate using a divorce attorney, you’d likely be sent to court-ordered, family law mediation. Many counties in Illinois, including Cook county, have court ordered mediation proceedings whereby a couple litigating will be required to engage in custody and parenting time mediation and an economic (financial) mediation session offered through the family courts.

And while we’re always pleased when couples mediate, no matter what route they took to get there, we feel there are a number of shortcomings with court-ordered mediation:

  • First, you don’t get to choose your professional like you would with private mediation. So you could end up with someone you don’t like, or you’re not comfortable working with.
  • Second, the approved individuals on the court roster may not be the most experienced. The only requirement to get on the Illinois court-ordered mediator roster is to take a 40-hour training class. So many new mediators get their start in the courts and have little or no “real-world” experience.
  • Finally, what if your issues are so complex that even if the court certified mediator isn’t fresh out of training, they still aren’t experienced handling unique issues like yours? While it may be possible to reach agreements through the court’s mediation program, we strongly feel private mediation produces a far better outcome.

For couples without minor children, there are two issues which need to be negotiated and agreed upon: maintenance and property division. Whereas for cases involving minor children, issues including co-parenting responsibilities and child support, will also need to be discussed and agreed upon.

There are significant differences between mediation and using lawyers ranging from the number of professionals involved, approach, cost, speed, control, tone, and more. Highly qualified mediators like us can help you and your family reach highly-customized and lasting agreements, in a less stressful and non contentious manner. So you can remain civil, and if you have children, be the great co-parents they’re counting on you to be.

Read: Mediation vs Divorce Lawyer, to compare these options and learn the many benefits we believe mediation provides.

Since no two mediators are alike, the actual mediation process will vary from professional-to-professional. But here’s a high-level overview of what happens throughout the process once you become our client:

To kick things off, your first mediation session will be a one-hour strategy session. In this session, Joe will help you both prepare for mediation by:

  • Developing a framework for your negotiations;
  • Identifying key areas of concern you each have;
  • Defining your goals for the process;
  • Directing you to begin gathering important financial documents;
  • And instructing you on how to work together to complete our proprietary forms and worksheets.

This part of the process is intended to help you, and Joe to define what a successful mediation will look like and greatly increase the chances you will come to an agreement.

Once you’ve submitted requested pre-work and discovery items to us, the mediation process transitions to negotiations.

Joe will meet with you and your spouse virtually – and guide you through a series of conversations encompassing the issues that need to be settled in your divorce. Each session lasts approximately 2-hours, and the number and frequency of sessions are determined by the details of your divorce, and the complexity of the issues you face.

If areas of disagreement arise in a mediation session, Joe will use his expertise in a variety of dispute resolution techniques to help you negotiate and overcome any impasses encountered along the way.

Once agreement is reached for all required issues, Joe will then draft a complex written document called a Memorandum of Understanding (MOU), outlining all decisions made during your negotiations. You will be encouraged to have your written agreement reviewed by your own respective lawyer; however it is your decision whether or not to do so.

Once you both agree the MOU looks good, you will then hire a filing professional who will assist with the paperwork preparation process. Your divorce papers may include, but are not limited to, the uncontested divorce filing, the divorce complaint, the marital settlement agreement, and budgets, along with a host of other related Illinois court paperwork. It’s important to note there are attorney and non-attorney filing professionals and it is your choice of which professional you use to have your divorce filed with the court. Upon receipt of the proper documentation and filing fees, your uncontested judgement of divorce will be granted by a judge as there is no waiting period in Illinois.

Our mediation process is very efficient and can be completed in a fraction of the time that a litigated divorce or collaborative law process would take.

Learn more about how you benefit by mediating with us.

Making decisions about your future during divorce can feel overwhelming, especially when the path ahead seems uncertain. We understand this challenge, which is why we’ve developed our proprietary Change of Circumstance Scenario Planning technique to help you create agreements that stand the test of time. Through our carefully designed process, we guide you through exercises that address not only your present situation but also your short, medium, and long-term future. Together, we craft comprehensive agreements that account for each of these time periods, ensuring all necessary issues are thoroughly addressed.

What sets our approach apart is our forward-thinking framework that allows for future adjustments to be performed by you and your spouse. Our agreements include highly-detailed language that allows for appropriate modifications when needed, helping families avoid costly litigation down the road. This innovative approach is just one example of how we help our clients leave mediation with thorough, comprehensive agreements that provide both immediate clarity and long-term flexibility.

The total cost of mediation varies greatly and is dependent on a number of factors including, but not limited to:

  • The experience and expertise of the mediator;
  • The thoroughness of their process (if they even have one);
  • The comprehensiveness of the services they;
  • The relationship dynamic between the parties and willingness to compromise and negotiate the issues.

You can work with an inexperienced mediator for a lower hourly rate or flat-fee, but then once mediation is completed, spend another few thousand dollars to have your agreement re-written by attorneys (and/or tens of thousands of dollars in the future to address missed issues.) Or you can work with an experienced mediator whose fee might be higher, but who delivers a more thorough service, written agreement, and resolution on both present and known/potential future issues, which will save you money, time and stress in the long run. Mediation is not “cheap divorce” but it is cost-effective with the average cost of a mediated divorce in Chicago ranging from $6,000 to $10,000.

To learn more, read: The Real Truth Behind Divorce Mediation Costs

Divorce mediation is usually a practical option for your divorce if:

  • There’s a level of mutual respect between you and your spouse, and you’re both willing to actively participate;
  • You’re both prepared to engage in a “good faith,” honest negotiation requiring full disclosure;
  • You’re willing to respect each other’s specific needs and interests, and recognize compromise is a key component of any agreements reached;
  • You want a competent divorce expert to help facilitate negotiations between you and your spouse and to provide options for you to both consider, but you both want to make your own decisions and retain full control over your divorce agreement. If one of you wishes to mediate, and one does not, unfortunately mediation will not be an option for you.

Yes. We believe strongly that in order to remain skillful in our field, we must remain dedicated exclusively to mediating family matters of divorce and separation. We do not mediate commercial, civil, elder, or community matters like others (who also mediate divorces) do. Matrimonial issues are complex and in our opinion, require a mediator to be singularly focused.

Unlike an attorney, a mediator cannot give legal advice or tell you what to do. Parties who choose to work with a mediator wish to make their own decisions on issues such as custody or property division, instead of being told what to do by an attorney.

Think of mediators like conductors in an orchestra. Conductors lead the symphony, and mediators lead the mediation process. But conductors don’t make the music, just like mediators don’t make the decisions for the parties. Yet without a conductor, or a mediator, the divorce proceedings would get off track, and the participants wouldn’t know what to do.

Learn more about divorce mediation.

Divorce mediation is a subset and is focused on helping married couples peacefully and cost-effectively end their marriage. Whereas divorce and family mediation is broader in scope, with mediators helping parties also resolve matters related to family, but not directly related to divorce. For example, creating a visitation / child custody arrangement for a child of a Chicago couple who is unmarried, or assisting with the property division of a family-owned business.

The term “alternative dispute resolution” or ADR for short, refers to any dispute resolution process that eliminates the parties need to hash out their issues and matters in court. Mediation is simply one type of ADR processes. Other common types may include, but are not limited to, collaborative divorce, arbitration, peace circles, and restorative justice. The idea behind ADR is to keep the parties out of expensive and damaging litigation, and instead, with the help of a neutral third party, for parties to reach agreement without having to go to court.

While most people think of divorce and dissolution of marriage as the same thing, in some states they are not.

Some practitioners think of a divorce as being contested, and dissolution of marriage as being uncontested. That is, in a dissolution of marriage, the issues were all handled privately, and many of the steps in a traditional divorce process were skipped (such as hiring an attorney or going to court).

In Illinois, it is common for people to use the terms divorce and dissolution of marriage interchangeably, but as non-attorney mediators, we can’t fully comment on the accuracy of this statement, nor its legal impact on a divorce case.

In Illinois, an uncontested divorce, also commonly known as a no-fault divorce, is one in which the parties are able to resolve, and come to agreement on, all of their issues, without the need to hire an attorney / attorneys and needing to have the matters decided in court.

When parties can work with a private mediator, all divorces in theory are uncontested divorces. Because a highly skilled Illinois divorce mediator will be able to help a divorcing couple resolve, and come to agreement on, all issues privately. In turn, eliminating the need for either party to hire an attorney and go to court.

One thing that’s important to note, and admittedly it’s a bit of a technicality, is that an “uncontested divorce” isn’t really a “no-fault divorce.” Every divorce has a fault; it’s just that in the case of a divorce process that uses a neutral third-party to come to agreement, the “fault” is commonly referred to “irreconcilable differences.”

Why Trust Equitable Mediation

Equitable Mediation Services is a trusted and nationally recognized provider of divorce mediation, serving couples exclusively in California, New Jersey, Washington, New York, Illinois, and Pennsylvania. Founded in 2008, this husband-and-wife team has successfully guided over 1,000 couples through the complex divorce process, helping them reach amicable, fair, and thorough agreements that balance each party’s interests and prioritize their children’s well-being. All without involving attorneys if they so choose.

At the heart of Equitable Mediation are Joe Dillon, MBA, and Cheryl Dillon, CPC—two compassionate, experienced professionals committed to helping couples resolve the financial, emotional, and practical issues of divorce peacefully and with dignity.

Joe Dillon, MBA – Divorce Mediator & Financial Expert

As a seasoned Divorce Mediator with an MBA in Finance, Joe Dillon specializes in helping clients navigate complex parental and financial issues, including:

  • Physical and legal custody
  • Spousal support (alimony) and child support
  • Equitable distribution and community property division
  • Business ownership
  • Retirement accounts, stock options, and RSUs

Joe’s unique blend of financial acumen, mediation expertise, and personal insight enables him to skillfully guide couples through complex divorce negotiations, reaching fair agreements that safeguard the family’s emotional and financial well-being.

He brings clarity and structure to even the most challenging negotiations, ensuring both parties feel heard, supported, and in control of their outcome. This approach has earned him a reputation as one of the most trusted names in alternative dispute resolution.

Cheryl Dillon, CPC – Certified Divorce Coach & Client Advocate

Cheryl Dillon is a Certified Professional Coach (CPC) and the Divorce Coach at Equitable Mediation. She earned a bachelor’s degree in psychology and completed formal training at The Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC) – an internationally recognized leader in the field of coaching education.

Her unique blend of emotional intelligence, coaching expertise, and personal insight enables her to guide individuals through the emotional complexities of divorce compassionately.

Cheryl’s approach fosters improved communication, reduced conflict, and better decision-making, equipping clients to manage the challenges of divorce effectively. Emotions have a profound impact on shaping the divorce process, its outcomes, and the future well-being of all involved.

What We Offer: Flat-Fee, Full-Service Divorce Mediation

Equitable Mediation provides:

  • Full-service divorce mediation with real financial expertise
  • Convenient, online sessions via Zoom
  • Unlimited sessions for one customized flat fee (no hourly billing surprises)
  • Child custody and parenting plan negotiation
  • Spousal support and asset division mediation
  • Divorce coaching and emotional support
  • Free and paid educational courses on the divorce process

Whether clients are facing financial complexities, looking to safeguard their children’s futures, or trying to protect everything they’ve worked hard to build, Equitable Mediation has the expertise to guide them towards the outcomes that matter most to them and their families.

Why Couples Choose Equitable Mediation

  • 98% case resolution rate
  • Trusted by over 1,000 families since 2008
  • Subject-matter experts in the states in which they practice
  • Known for confidential, respectful, and cost-effective processes
  • Recommendations by therapists, financial planners, and former clients

Equitable Mediation Services operates in:

  • California: San Francisco, San Diego, Los Angeles
  • New Jersey: Bridgewater, Morristown, Short Hills
  • Washington: Seattle, Bellevue, Kirkland
  • New York: NYC, Long Island
  • Illinois: Chicago, North Shore
  • Pennsylvania: Philadelphia, Bucks County, Montgomery County, Pittsburgh, Allegheny County

Schedule a Free Discovery Call to learn if you’re a good candidate for divorce mediation with Joe and Cheryl.

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