Why Couples Trust Equitable Mediation: Specialists in a Better Way to Divorce

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Why divorce with us is different

Divorce changed our lives. And it’s why we do what we do.

Growing up, Joe watched his family go through a lengthy, lawyer-driven divorce that took years to resolve. The process left his father hurt and bitter, effectively ending their relationship for good.

Cheryl went through her own divorce and experienced firsthand how isolating and disorienting the process can be, even when both parties want to move forward. That experience is what led her to coaching, and what makes her so effective at helping others find their footing.

Those experiences are what led us to mediation. And they’re what drive us to make sure every couple we work with has a better path forward than the one we witnessed.

By partnering with us as your divorce mediation specialists, we’ll help you reach a fair, peaceful resolution that balances the interests of both parties and keeps your children’s well-being front and center.

With us as your divorce mediation specialist, you’ll get:

The peace of mind that comes from knowing your negotiations were fair, thorough, and handled properly. Giving you a solid foundation as you move forward into the next phase of your life.

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Divorce mediation with real financial expertise

Divorce is mostly financial. With us, you get Joe: a skilled divorce mediator with a strong financial acumen.

For over 25 years, Joe has leveraged his expertise in negotiation, finance, and interpersonal relationships to help individuals, couples, and corporations resolve complex issues through mediation.

Not only does he have a command of the parental and financial decisions that need to be made (parenting plan, child support, alimony, property division,) but he is well-versed in the specific nuances of these issues in all states we practice in.

Joe tailors solutions for each client and situation. He has mediated divorces across all demographics and complexity levels, facilitating over a thousand private, out-of-court agreements.

A proven process

Without a clear process, divorce negotiations can easily get off track. Our proven approach keeps things efficient, organized, and moving forward productively.

You’ll start with a Strategy Session where Joe develops a plan with you for your negotiations and shares steps for an optimal outcome. You’ll get a Mediation Roadmap outlining important milestones to keep things on track. And throughout mediation, you’ll have direct access to Joe, our client portal, toolkit, and secure file sharing system.

Our approach provides you with the support and resources you need to complete the mediation process effectively.

A thorough agreement

Skipping important details in your divorce agreement can lead to future disputes and misunderstandings. Unlike mediators who provide only basic write-ups, our detailed Memorandum of Understanding captures every decision made during mediation with clear, actionable steps forward.

And we don’t just tackle the immediate challenges of your divorce. We help you anticipate speed bumps and plan for future changes in circumstances affecting both you and your kids. Your written divorce agreement will be thorough, easy to understand and can even address future scenarios and situations.

Emotional support

Navigating divorce while making important decisions isn’t easy. That’s why Divorce Coach Cheryl Dillon is available to you throughout the mediation process.

Providing one-on-one support to help you stay focused, communicate more effectively, and approach each decision with clarity.

Having a coach in your corner makes a real difference.

Tailored solutions

Creative solutions customized to your unique needs and circumstances.

Every couple’s situation is different – and so are the complexities of the issues they face.

That’s why we don’t believe in a cookie cutter approach.

Instead, we develop customized solutions to address your specific situation. Resulting in outcomes best suited to your finances, your family, and your future.

Convenient, online sessions

Traditional mediation means coordinating schedules around office visits. Our online format lets you join sessions from any private space you choose.

In 2011, we combined our high-quality divorce mediation service with user-friendly technology, launching our online divorce mediation format.

It’s real, hands-on mediation, and a convenient way to negotiate all the terms of your divorce from the comfort of your home, office, or any private space of your choosing.

Unlimited sessions, one customized flat fee

Our priority is helping you reach an equitable agreement that protects your children, preserves your wealth, and gives you both the foundation for the future you deserve. And we’ll stop at nothing to get you there.

Lawyers and other mediators typically bill hourly or limit the number of hours in their flat fee.

But not us!

You’ll get unlimited sessions for one customized flat fee. So you can take the time you need to reach a resolution, without watching the clock or worrying about mounting costs.

How we compare

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TESTIMONIALS

What our clients are saying

Fran & Bob

former clients

"Cheryl and Joe are consummate professionals and they made a really awful and difficult time far more palatable. They are kind, smart, patient, and competent.

We do not recommend divorce. But we recommend Joe and Cheryl, highly. We are grateful they were there for us."

Rick

former client

"You know what works and you know how to mediate. I can't thank you enough for getting me through this tough time with humor and ease."

Melissa

former client

"You both really understand all of the dynamics involved in the divorce process, and really have your clients best interest in mind. The step-by-step process broken into little sections was awesome. It made this big, giant, overwhelming task comprehensible. I'm so grateful. You have a wonderful process in place."

Diane & Jim

former clients

"Working with you felt much less daunting and overwhelming. You made it as easy and quick as possible without spending 10's of thousands of dollars on attorney fees."

Tiffany

former client

"You are genuinely nice people. You were empathetic toward us. I felt like you really understood what we had to go through and you guided us every step of the way.

I felt your support 100% of the time."

WHO WE ARE

Meet the Equitable Mediation team

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DIVORCE MEDIATOR & FOUNDER

Joe became a divorce mediator to help your family avoid what happened to his.

Joe earned a master’s degree in finance and was trained in negotiation and mediation at some of the world’s most prestigious institutions. When it comes to the issues of divorce, there’s no level of complexity Joe can’t handle.

Read more about Joe

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DIVORCE COACH & CO-FOUNDER

After her own experience of divorce, Cheryl knows how much mediation and coaching can help.

Cheryl earned a bachelor’s degree in psychology and is a certified life coach. As your coach, she’ll help you communicate more effectively, stay focused on what matters, and approach each decision with greater clarity and confidence.

Read more about Cheryl

Choose to divorce differently

As your mediation specialists, we’ll help you and your spouse work together to reach a peaceful and fair resolution that protects your finances and sets your family up for the future ahead.

Frequently Asked Questions

Equitable Mediation Services is a specialized firm offering online divorce mediation and divorce coaching to couples seeking an amicable, confidential alternative to litigation. Led by Joe Dillon, MBA, and Cheryl Dillon, CPC, the firm provides step-by-step guidance to resolve issues like child custody, alimony, and property division—entirely over Zoom.

Equitable Mediation Services operates in six U.S. states: California, New Jersey, Washington, New York, Illinois, and Pennsylvania. The practice is virtual and available exclusively to couples residing in these states.

Not necessarily. While the service is best suited for couples committed to an amicable divorce, even those with moderate tension can benefit from structured mediation sessions and coaching support to stay focused on resolution—not conflict.

Their unique approach combines:

  • Divorce mediation with real financial expertise
  • Divorce coaching to provide personal, one-on-one support throughout the process
  • A proven process to keep negotiations on track
  • A thorough agreement to ensure all issues are thoroughly documented
  • No limit to the number of mediation sessions, for one customized flat fee
  • A 98% case resolution rate

This holistic model stands apart from traditional lawyer-driven divorce or barebones DIY platforms.

The firm offers a custom flat-fee model with no limit on the number of sessions and full support until an agreement is reached. There is no hourly billing. The cost depends on each couple’s unique case complexity, not time.

Yes. Equitable Mediation helps couples create customized, practical parenting plans that prioritize children’s needs while addressing co-parenting logistics and legal custody arrangements.

Ideal clients include:

  • Couples married 15–30 years
  • Business owners
  • High-net-worth individuals
  • Employees or owners of tech or start-up firms
  • Dual-income professional parents seeking out-of-the-box co-parenting solutions

And any clients needing help with the financial aspects of divorce, such as child support, alimony, and property division of assets, including retirement accounts, stock options, or investment portfolios.

No. Clients are welcome to obtain a lawyer’s perspective on a particular issue or retain one if they so choose. However, they are not required at any point in their divorce to work with or speak to an attorney. The decision is entirely up to them.

Joe Dillon, MBA, a seasoned divorce mediator with deep financial experience, leads all divorce mediation negotiation sessions with both spouses present. Cheryl Dillon, CPC, a Certified Divorce Coach, provides personal guidance and strategic support through one-on-one coaching sessions.

Prospective clients can begin by scheduling a Free Discovery Call with Cheryl or a Free Initial Consultation with Joe depending on if one or both spouses are ready to begin mediation.