If you’re going through a divorce and someone’s paycheck doesn’t arrive like clockwork every two weeks, calculating maintenance gets complicated fast. Business owners, self-employed professionals, commission-based salespeople, and anyone with fluctuating income face a challenge: there’s no simple number that tells the whole story.

Getting the income calculation right is critical. Miscalculate it, and you’re either paying too much or receiving too little for years. This is precisely where financial expertise matters most—and where litigation’s adversarial approach fails.

How New York Defines Income for Maintenance

New York ties maintenance income calculations to the definition in the Child Support Standards Act. The starting point is your gross income—essentially what you reported or should have reported on your most recent federal tax return.

The definition includes income from all sources: investment income, workers’ compensation, disability benefits, unemployment, social security, veterans’ benefits, pensions, fellowships, stipends, annuities, and even maintenance from a prior marriage.

Why Your Tax Return Isn’t the Final Answer

If you own a business or are self-employed, there’s probably a significant gap between what your tax return shows and what you’re actually able to spend. This is perfectly legal—tax law encourages business deductions. But when determining maintenance, we look at things differently.

New York adds back explicitly certain self-employment deductions: depreciation exceeding straight-line depreciation, and entertainment and travel allowances to the extent they reduce personal expenditures. But the analysis often goes deeper.

If your business pays for your car, cell phone, home office, meals, and travel, you’re receiving economic benefit even though these expenses reduce taxable income. For maintenance purposes, we need to recognize the economic value of these perks.

This is where having a mediator with an MBA in finance makes a real difference. Many mediators lack the background to analyze business financial statements properly. We can guide you through this analysis accurately.

Analyzing Business Financial Statements

Reviewing business tax returns and financial statements to calculate New York maintenance for a business owner. Get expert guidance from Equitable Mediation by calling (877) 732-6682.

When one spouse owns a business, look beyond the personal tax return to business tax returns and financial statements. Start with the business tax return—Schedule C for sole proprietors, K-1 from partnerships or S-corporations, or corporate returns.

For each expense category, ask: Does this represent actual business costs, or does it include personal consumption? Cost of goods sold, employee salaries, rent for separate business space, business insurance—these are real costs. Other expenses sit in a gray area. A business vehicle used 80% for business, and 20% personally, should have some portion added back. Business meals that are really your daily lunch? That’s personal consumption.

In mediation, we can discuss what represents sustainable business spending versus the income you chose to spend on the business. In litigation, competing financial experts present dramatically different analyses, and you’re gambling on which version gets accepted.

The Personal Consumption Test

Here’s a practical approach: look at lifestyle and spending. Suppose your tax return shows $60,000 in income, but you’re living in a $4,000-a-month apartment, driving a new luxury car, taking international vacations, and paying private school tuition. In that case, the numbers don’t add up. Something’s generating economic benefit beyond what the tax return shows.

In litigation, this becomes a battle of dueling financial experts. In mediation, we can have an honest discussion about lifestyle without adversarial posturing.

Create a monthly budget reflecting actual spending. Include housing, transportation, food, clothing, entertainment, vacation, insurance, and everything else. If that spending significantly exceeds what the tax return would support, there’s income flowing through that needs to be identified.

Normalizing Variable Income

Analyzing variable income trends, including commissions and bonuses, to calculate New York maintenance. Consult Equitable Mediation today at (877) 732-6682 for personalized support.

For professionals with commissions, substantial bonuses, or fluctuating income, the challenge is determining a normalized income that reflects earning capacity without being artificially inflated by a single exceptional year or deflated by a single slow year.

The standard approach is a multi-year average, typically three to five years. But averaging alone isn’t enough—understand the trend. A salesperson whose commissions were $150,000 three years ago, $120,000 two years ago, and $90,000 last year has a different picture than someone earning $90,000, $120,000, and $150,000 over the same period.

Consider the reasons behind fluctuations. Was last year unusually low because of a resolved health issue? Was the prior year unusually high due to a one-time windfall? In mediation, we can discuss these nuances and agree on what represents sustainable earning capacity.

Investment Income and Distributed Assets

New York adds complexity: income from assets distributed in the divorce can be considered when calculating maintenance. If you’re receiving $500,000 in investment accounts generating $20,000 in annual income, that investment income may be factored into maintenance calculations.

This creates strategic considerations. If the lower-earning spouse receives substantial income-producing assets, it might reduce or eliminate their maintenance entitlement. If they receive illiquid assets, such as home equity, that don’t generate cash flow, the maintenance calculation might be higher.

The analysis requires understanding not just current income from assets but what they could reasonably generate. This is sophisticated financial planning that requires genuine expertise.

Imputed Income and Earning Capacity

New York allows the imputation of income based on former resources or earning capacity if someone reduced their income to avoid support obligations. This can apply to business owners who start taking lower salaries, professionals who suddenly scale back, or anyone whose income decline seems more strategic than genuine.

In mediation, imputation discussions can be more productive because we can discuss choices and motivations candidly. Did you genuinely pursue a lower-stress career for mental health, or are you trying to reduce support obligations? The goal isn’t to punish legitimate life choices, but to ensure support calculations reflect actual earning capacity.

Active Guidance Through Financial Complexity

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When negotiating maintenance where income isn’t straightforward, transparency is everything. Gather comprehensive documentation: personal and business tax returns for three years, profit and loss statements, balance sheets, and business bank statements for business owners. For variable earners, gather pay stubs and 1099s.

We walk through financial statements together, identifying each business expense category and discussing whether each is a pure business cost or contains personal consumption. We don’t require you to have this figured out—we actively guide you through the analysis, bringing financial expertise to help you understand what the numbers mean.

Acknowledge uncertainty and build in flexibility. If income is probably between $120,000 and $150,000 but you can’t pin down an exact number, consider structuring maintenance that adjusts if actual income demonstrates you were significantly off.

Getting to a Number You Can Both Accept

The goal isn’t finding the “perfect” income number—it’s finding a number both parties view as reasonable given available information. Business owners often feel their income is being inflated, while their spouses feel the tax return understates real economic benefit. The truth usually sits in the middle.

Sometimes working backward helps. If you agree that a certain maintenance level feels right, reverse-engineer what income would produce that amount and test whether that number seems reasonable.

Why Financial Expertise Makes All the Difference

Calculating maintenance when income isn’t straightforward requires more than plugging numbers into a formula. It requires careful financial analysis, understanding of business operations, honest conversation about lifestyle, and willingness to look at multiple years.

This is precisely where many mediators fall short. Coming from legal or mental health backgrounds, they don’t have the training to properly analyze business financial statements, understand add-backs, normalize variable income, or assess whether lifestyle spending aligns with reported income. They might facilitate conversation, but they can’t guide you through the sophisticated financial analysis required.

With an MBA in finance, we can help you understand what Schedule C expenses should be added back, how to properly average variable income, what investment income assumptions are reasonable, and whether imputed income arguments have merit.

In litigation, you’re stuck with dueling financial experts presenting dramatically different income calculations designed to support their client’s position. The process is expensive, adversarial, and often produces unsatisfactory outcomes.

In mediation with genuine financial expertise, complexity becomes an asset. This deeper analysis often leads to stronger agreements because both parties understand and accept the reasoning. With sound financial guidance, transparent disclosure, and a collaborative approach, you can reach a maintenance agreement that reflects actual economic reality—exactly what financial expertise combined with mediation skill delivers.

“You may have researched how alimony works in your state. But in my experience, regardless of whether a state offers guidance on how to resolve alimony, often, couples negotiate their own agreement tailored to their unique situation and circumstances.

So you have a lot of flexibility and can maintain a lot of control if you negotiate the terms of alimony out of court with the help of a skilled professional using an alternative dispute resolution process like divorce mediation or a collaborative divorce .

You and your soon-to-be ex-spouse will more likely come to an alimony arrangement that's acceptable to both of you."

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FAQs About Spousal Maintenance in New York

Spousal maintenance is the current legal term in New York for financial support that one spouse pays to another during or after divorce. “Alimony” is an older term replaced in New York law years ago. The purpose is to help the financially dependent spouse meet reasonable needs and become self-supporting.

In mediation, we discuss maintenance as part of your overall financial planning rather than as something imposed by external rules. Understanding that maintenance serves as a bridge to financial independence helps frame productive conversations about what makes sense for your specific situation.

New York recognizes three types: informal spousal support during separation, temporary maintenance paid during the divorce process, and post-divorce maintenance paid after finalization.

Temporary maintenance helps maintain financial stability while the divorce proceeds, while post-divorce maintenance facilitates the transition to financial independence. Receiving temporary maintenance doesn’t automatically guarantee post-divorce maintenance.

In mediation, we help you structure the transition between phases using step-down provisions or rehabilitative plans that align with realistic timelines. This integrated approach works better than treating phases separately, which often happens in litigation.

New York uses statutory formulas that consider both spouses’ incomes and whether child support is involved. Without child support, the formula subtracts 20% of the receiving spouse’s income from 30% of the paying spouse’s income. With child support, it subtracts 25% of the receiving spouse’s income from 20% of the paying spouse’s income. There’s also a check calculation: 40% of combined income minus the receiving spouse’s income. The lower result generally serves as the guideline amount.

As of 2025, the formula applies to income up to $228,000. For income above that cap, how New York approaches maintenance becomes more discretionary, based on factors like standard of living during the marriage, earning capacity, career sacrifices, and health conditions.

While these formulas provide a starting point, they often produce results that don’t match real-world circumstances. In mediation, we calculate what the guidelines would produce, then explore whether that makes sense for your situation or whether creative alternatives might work better. With an MBA in finance, we can model different scenarios, show you tax implications, and help you understand long-term financial impact. This rigorous financial analysis goes well beyond simply plugging numbers into a formula.

How New York approaches duration depends on marriage length. For 0-15 year marriages, maintenance typically ranges from 15-30% of the marriage length. For 15-20 year marriages, it’s 30-40%. For marriages over 20 years, it’s 35-50%.

These are ranges, not fixed rules. A twelve-year marriage might result in maintenance for roughly 2-4 years, depending on factors like age, employability, and career sacrifices. Maintenance typically ends when either spouse dies or when the receiving spouse remarries.

In mediation, we model different duration scenarios and their long-term impacts. We help you think through whether standard ranges make sense or whether step-down provisions or review mechanisms would work better.

Qualification requires demonstrating financial need—meaning you lack sufficient income or assets to meet reasonable expenses—while the other spouse has the financial ability to provide support. If both spouses earn similar incomes and have comparable resources, maintenance is unlikely.

How New York evaluates eligibility involves examining income disparity, particularly where one spouse sacrificed career opportunities to support the family. The requesting spouse’s employability skills and realistic earning potential matter. A spouse’s role as homemaker or support system for the higher-earning spouse’s career is relevant.

In mediation, we examine actual earning capacity, career timelines, and financial needs with specificity rather than making worst-case or best-case assumptions.

How New York approaches maintenance involves thirteen statutory factors: age and health of both parties, earning capacity, need for education or training expenses, wasteful dissipation of marital property, domestic violence that inhibited earning capacity, medical insurance availability and cost, care of children, reduced lifetime earning capacity due to forgone career opportunities, pre-marital joint household duration, contributions to the marriage, property distribution, tax consequences, and other relevant factors.

In litigation, attorneys argue about how these factors apply. In mediation, we work through them together to build shared understanding and structure maintenance that acknowledges what’s most important to both of you.

No, maintenance is not automatic. Unlike child support which is mandatory when children are involved, maintenance is based on specific financial circumstances.

In litigation, someone petitions for maintenance and makes arguments about why it should be awarded. In mediation, you can have open conversations about whether maintenance makes sense, how much, and for how long, without adversarial positioning. You can negotiate your own arrangement as part of a comprehensive settlement that considers property division, tax planning, and your long-term goals together.

This flexibility is one of mediation’s most valuable advantages.

For divorces finalized after January 1, 2019, federal tax law changed significantly: the paying spouse can no longer deduct maintenance payments, and the receiving spouse doesn’t report them as income on federal returns. However, New York state tax law didn’t change—maintenance payments remain deductible for the paying spouse and taxable to the receiving spouse on state returns.

This creates a split where you must file federal and state taxes differently regarding maintenance. The federal tax law change eliminated what had been a significant incentive for higher maintenance amounts, as payors could previously reduce their taxable income through these deductions.

This tax complexity is exactly where financial expertise makes a critical difference. Understanding the actual after-tax cost and benefit requires sophisticated modeling that most people—and many mediators—aren’t equipped to do. With an MBA in finance, we can model the tax impact accurately, show you side-by-side scenarios, and help you structure maintenance in ways that maximize the benefit to both parties when tax treatment is considered. This kind of analysis can reveal opportunities for structuring agreements that litigation simply doesn’t accommodate.

Yes, lump-sum maintenance is possible. Rather than monthly payments over time, one spouse provides the full maintenance amount upfront.

This works when the paying spouse has sufficient liquid assets and values finality. For the receiving spouse, benefits include immediate access to funds and no concerns about future ability or willingness to pay. However, recipients lose flexibility since lump-sum payments typically can’t be modified.

Evaluating whether lump-sum maintenance makes sense requires rigorous financial analysis: calculating present value of payment streams, assessing liquidity and tax implications, and understanding opportunity costs. This is where financial expertise matters significantly.

As of 2025, New York’s statutory formula applies to income up to $228,000. For income above that cap, how maintenance is determined becomes more discretionary based on factors like standard of living during the marriage, financial needs, and ability to maintain reasonable needs while providing support.

When you’re dealing with income above the cap, financial sophistication becomes essential. Rather than a simple formula, you’re negotiating based on complex factors, often involving variable compensation like bonuses, stock options, or business income. In mediation with financial expertise, we can analyze these complex structures, model different scenarios, and help you structure agreements that make financial sense.

The Mediation Advantage for Maintenance Discussions

Throughout these FAQs, you’ve seen references to mediation as an alternative to litigation. In litigation, attorneys fight over what guidelines produce and argue about how factors apply. You’re spending tens of thousands on adversarial processes that often produce outcomes neither party accepts. For co-parents, this poisons the relationship foundation you need for years ahead.

In mediation, you’re working together to understand what the guidelines say, whether they fit your circumstances, and what alternatives might work better. When you combine that collaborative process with genuine financial expertise—the ability to model scenarios, calculate present values, analyze tax impacts, and structure creative solutions—you get agreements that are both fair and sustainable.

That’s what makes the difference between maintenance arrangements that work and ones that create ongoing conflict.

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About the Authors – Divorce Mediators You Can Trust

Equitable Mediation Services is a trusted and nationally recognized provider of divorce mediation, serving couples exclusively in California, New Jersey, Washington, New York, Illinois, and Pennsylvania. Founded in 2008, this husband-and-wife team has successfully guided more than 1,000 couples through the complex divorce process, helping them reach amicable, fair, and thorough agreements that balance each of their interests and prioritizes their children’s well-being. All without involving attorneys if they so choose.

At the heart of Equitable Mediation are Joe Dillon, MBA, and Cheryl Dillon, CPC—two compassionate, experienced professionals committed to helping couples resolve divorce’s financial, emotional, and practical issues peacefully and with dignity.

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Joe Dillon, MBA – Divorce Mediator & Negotiation Expert

As a seasoned Divorce Mediator with an MBA in Finance, Joe Dillon specializes in helping clients navigate complex parental and financial issues, including:

  • Physical and legal custody
  • Spousal support (alimony) and child support
  • Equitable distribution and community property division
  • Business ownership
  • Retirement accounts, stock options, and RSUs

Joe’s unique blend of financial acumen, mediation expertise, and personal insight enables him to skillfully guide couples through complex divorce negotiations, reaching fair agreements that safeguard the family’s emotional and financial well-being.

He brings clarity and structure to even the most challenging negotiations, ensuring both parties feel heard, supported, and in control of their outcome. This approach has earned him a reputation as one of the most trusted names in alternative dispute resolution.

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Cheryl Dillon, CPC – Certified Divorce Coach & Life Transitions Expert

Cheryl Dillon is a Certified Professional Coach (CPC) and the Divorce Coach at Equitable Mediation. She earned a bachelor’s degree in psychology and completed formal training at The Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC) – an internationally recognized leader in the field of coaching education.

Her unique blend of emotional intelligence, coaching expertise, and personal insight enables her to guide individuals through divorce’s emotional complexities compassionately.

Cheryl’s approach fosters improved communication, reduced conflict, and better decision-making, equipping clients to manage divorce’s challenges effectively. Because emotions have a profound impact on shaping the divorce process, its outcomes, and future well-being of all involved.

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Equitable Mediation provides:

  • Full-service divorce mediation with real financial expertise
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Whether clients are facing financial complexities, looking to safeguard their children’s futures, or trying to protect everything they’ve worked hard to build, Equitable Mediation has the expertise to guide them towards the outcomes that matter most to them and their families.

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