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Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Joe Dillon is a divorce mediator and founder of Equitable Mediation. He holds a Master’s degree in finance, and completed formal training in negotiation and mediation from Harvard University, MIT, Northwestern University (Chicago, Illinois campus), the NJ Association of Professional Mediators, the Institute for Continuing Legal Education, the Academy of Professional Family Mediators and the Institute for Divorce Financial Analysis. As a child, Joe witnessed first-hand the damage of attorney-driven litigation during his parents' divorce. In 2008, he set out to offer divorcing couples a more peaceful and dignified alternative. Throughout his professional career, Joe has helped over a thousand couples reach a fair and equitable divorce agreement - out of court.

Recent posts by Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

How to Financially Prepare for Divorce: 6 Money Moves You Can't Afford to Ignore

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Divorce can be emotionally and financially daunting, but proper preparation can help safeguard your financial future. This article outlines six crucial steps to take when financially preparing for divorce.

Topics: Preparing for Divorce

How to Prepare for Divorce as a Woman: 10 Tips for Success

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

No matter how well you prepare for divorce as a woman, the process can be overwhelming! But you can reduce the amount of stress your divorce will have on you by following these 10 tips.

Topics: Preparing for Divorce

The Importance of a Good Parenting Plan

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

A divorce with kids is never easy. Using mediation to negotiate a comprehensive parenting plan increases your chances of co-parenting success. Find out why.

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

Who Gets the House in a Divorce?

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Who gets the house in a divorce? Here are 7 questions you need to ask (and answer) to help you decide who will get the house in your divorce.

Topics: Divorce Issues

How to Have an Amicable Divorce

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Amicable divorce is possible and all about choices. Learn how to divorce amicably and the 5 things you must do to have a civil and peaceful divorce.

Topics: Preparing for Divorce Divorce Mediation

Child Support in California in 2024: More Complex Than You Might Think

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Determining child support in California is a lot more complex than you might think. Learn what you need to know so you can secure your child's future!

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

Gray Divorce Signs | Reasons | Older Divorce Avoidance

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Facing a gray divorce? Learn the signs of gray divorce, issues and challenges to watch out for, and the best way to resolve them.

Topics: Preparing for Divorce Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

Can Living Together After Divorce Work? Yes! Here’s How.

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Living together after divorce can be a good option for couples to consider. Learn the benefits and challenges of cohabitation after divorce so you can decide if it is right for you.

Topics: Divorce Issues

Divorce Mediation vs Lawyer: Which is Right for You?

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Learn how divorce mediation compares to divorce with lawyers. This way, you can choose the professional right for you.

Topics: Preparing for Divorce Divorce Mediation

How are Assets Divided in a Divorce?

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Learn how assets are divided in a divorce. And what you and your spouse can do to get a fair outcome and protect your assets from being wasted on legal fees.

Topics: Preparing for Divorce Divorce Issues

Divorce Mediation Tips and a Divorce Mediation Checklist

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Here are a few divorce mediation tips and a divorce mediation checklist to help ensure your mediation stays peaceful and on track.

Topics: Preparing for Divorce Divorce Mediation

How to Negotiate a Divorce Settlement With Your Spouse That's Fair

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Want to ensure you get a fair divorce settlement? Here are some steps to take and things you must do to ensure your divorce agreement is fair.

Topics: Preparing for Divorce Divorce Mediation

Divorce Advice for Men: How To Prepare For Divorce as a Man

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

If you follow these actionable divorce tips for men, you’ll increase your ability to keep your proceedings amicable, efficient, child focused and cost-effective.

Topics: Preparing for Divorce

10 Compelling Benefits of Divorce Mediation

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Here are the 10 top benefits of divorce mediation for divorce. Before you hire lawyers, learn why you owe it to yourself and your kids to mediate instead.

Topics: Preparing for Divorce Divorce Mediation

Considering Lump Sum Alimony? Avoid These 5 Mistakes.

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Learn what a lump sum alimony buyout is, pitfalls to avoid if you're considering one, and how to get a result that's fair to both you and your soon-to-be ex.

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

Facing an Empty Nest Divorce? Watch Out for These 3 Tricky Issues

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Facing an empty nesters divorce? Learn the most common reasons this occurs, 3 significant challenges to watch out for, and how to get the best outcome.

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

Equitable Distribution: Who Gets What in a Divorce?

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

In equitable distribution, who gets what in a divorce is complicated. Working with an expert divorce mediator is key to a fair agreement. Learn why.

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

How Does Alimony Work?

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Alimony is the most difficult issue to resolve in divorce for many reasons. Learn how it works, so you can secure your financial future.

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

How Does Child Support Work?

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Child support is a complex divorce issue for many reasons. Learn how child support works, and how you can ensure your children's financial well-being!

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

Bird Nesting Divorce: Is it Right for You?

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Learn the pros and cons of a nesting divorce, also known as bird nest parenting, and how mediation can help you develop a plan that works for your kids.

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

Divorce After 10 Years of Marriage? Why Mediation is Key!

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

There's a lot at stake if you are divorcing after 10 years of marriage. Learn the best way to divide, decide and resolve the critical issues.

Topics: Preparing for Divorce Divorce Mediation

Divorce and Business Owners: 7 Things You Need to Know

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Facing divorce with a business involved? Learn mistakes to avoid when dividing a business in a divorce so you don't lose everything you worked so hard to build.

Topics: Preparing for Divorce Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

My Wife Wants a Divorce. What Should I Do?

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Finding out your wife wants a divorce can be shocking and scary. Learn how you can take charge and proceed without losing your kids (and your shirt) in the process.

Topics: Preparing for Divorce Coping with Divorce Divorce Mediation

For Divorce After Short Marriage Mediation is Your Best Bet

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

If you want your divorce after a short marriage to be fair, but don't want it to be full of drama, cost a fortune or take forever to complete, here's what to do.

Topics: Preparing for Divorce Divorce Mediation

The Challenges of Determining New York Alimony in 2024

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

The topic of alimony (spousal maintenance) in NY is a complicated one. Find out what you need to know and how to best resolve this complex issue.

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

How is Child Support Calculated in NY in 2024? 6 Things to Know

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Now that you're facing divorce in NY, here's how to make sure your kids get the financial support they need in order to live healthy and happy lives.

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

Divorce after 20 Years: A Negotiation Survival Guide

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Divorcing after 20 years of marriage (or more)? Here's what you can do to understand the issues you'll face and plan a smart course of action to preserve wealth and minimize legal bills.

Topics: Preparing for Divorce Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

Determining Illinois Alimony in 2024

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

The topic of alimony in Illinois (maintenance) is complicated. Learn more about this difficult issue and the best way to resolve it.

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

Determining Spousal Support in Washington State in 2024

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Agreeing on spousal support in Washington State is not easy to do! Learn what you need to know about this complex topic and why mediation is the best way to fairly resolve it.

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

Determining Alimony in California in 2024

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Find out how alimony in California works and what you can do to prevent your spousal support negotiation (and divorce) from turning into a disaster!

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

Determining Alimony in NJ in 2024

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Determining spousal support in NJ is very challenging. Learn what you need to know about this complex topic and how to get a fair alimony agreement.

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

Understanding Alimony in PA in 2024 and The Challenges of Resolving It

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Agreeing on alimony in PA is no easy task! Learn what you need to know about this complex topic and why mediation is your best bet to resolve it.

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

Determining Alimony in Michigan in 2024

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Agreeing on alimony in Michigan is not easy! Learn what you need to know about this complex subject and how to fairly resolve it.

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

How to Ensure Your Child's Well-Being in 2024 with Child Support in NJ

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

You may think determining child support in NJ is easy, but it's not. Learn what you need to know to ensure your children's financial well-being!

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

Safeguarding Your Children in 2024 with Child Support in Illinois

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

You might think determining child support in Illinois is easy, but it's not. Learn what to do so your kids don't suffer financially because of your divorce.

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

Determining Washington State Child Support in 2024: 8 Things to Know

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Learn the 10 things you need to know about determining Washington State child support so you can protect your kids from becoming economic victims of divorce

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

Think it's Easy to Determine PA Child Support in 2024? Guess Again!

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

You may think determining PA child support is easy, but it's not. Learn what you need to know to ensure your children's future after your divorce.

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

8 Child Support in Michigan Questions You Should Be Asking in 2024

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Wondering how child support works in Michigan? Find out what you need to know to ensure your children's financial well-being after your divorce.

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

Community Property Washington State

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Think community property in a divorce in Washington State is always divided equally? Learn how you can have a say in fairly resolving this complicated issue.

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

Community Property California: Not Always 50-50 in Divorce

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

Think community property in a California divorce is always split equally? Learn how you can actually get a say in how to divide your property and debts equitably.

Topics: Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

11 Tragic Mistakes to Avoid in a High Asset Divorce

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

A high net worth divorce is much more complex than divorce with a basic asset pool. And there’s a lot more at stake! Learn why and how to protect your wealth.

Topics: Preparing for Divorce Divorce Mediation Divorce Issues

How Much Does a Divorce Cost?

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

The cost of divorce will vary based on a number of factors. Learn what those factors are and how they affect how much it will cost you to get divorced.

Topics: Preparing for Divorce

What am I Entitled to in a Divorce?

By Joe Dillon, Divorce Mediator

What am I entitled to is a question many people facing divorce want to know. There's no easy answer, but here's a tip to help you get what you deserve in your divorce agreement.

Topics: Preparing for Divorce Divorce Mediation