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How to Move on Financially After Divorce

It's no secret that divorce is a major life-changing event and given the stress you're probably under, money is both the first and last thing on your mind. In this helpful article, author Sheryl Nance-Nash offers readers guidance on financial issues to pay close attention to when going through a divorce. Naturally using a NJ divorce mediator can also go a long way towards ensuring your financial future needs are also met.

Children and Divorce: Helping Kids Cope With the Breakup

So you've made the difficult decision to divorce and now you're wondering: how do we tell the kids? This article from The Mayo Clinic gives parents some rules of the road when it comes to breaking this difficult news to your little ones.

Divorce: What About the Kids?

Sometimes adults get so wrapped up in the details of divorce and mediation that they forget there are others who's feelings they need to consider. In this interesting article from Psychology Today read how if they don't the consequences can be devastating for years to come.

Money Fights Predict Divorce Rates

In this NY Times article, the results of a new study propose that couples who fight over money on a more frequent basis are 30% more likely to get a divorce. If money is an issue and you are going to divorce, please consider using divorce mediation as most couples who do save at least $20,000 on their divorce and wind up with the exact same reuslt as if they went to court and litigated.

The Civilized Divorce

In this Wall Street Journal article, the idea of a "civilized divorce' is discussed with now separated couples sharing their thoughts on why it's so important to remain friendly post-separartion. If you ask me, mediation is the best way I know of to have a civilized divorce which is especially important if you have children.

How to Keep Focus at Work While Getting a Divorce

There is no question that going through a divorce, even while using divorce mediation, is a significantly traumatic experience for anyone. In this article from the Miami Herald, the author offers some excellent tips on how to try and keep it together while going through this difficult time.

Divorce During Recession

The folks at Forbes Magazine bring us this informative article on how the recession affects divorce rates and things to be mindful of when contemplating a divorce at this point in time. Given the tremendous cost savings you achieve by using divorce mediation, I'd say that's a great place to start.

Child's View the Best Counter to Court Cases

Imagine if your children had a say in your divorce proceedings or could listen in on you and your spouse in mediation. What would they say? That's exactly what is happening in Australia and it is having a positive effect on the number of divorces that wind up in court. State of New Jersey are you listening?

The Top 5 Mistakes to Avoid When Getting Divorced

In this article from Smart Money Magazine couples are alerted to five common pitfalls many couples become entrapped in when going through the process of a divorce. By following the articles simple advice, you can reduce the chance that your divorce will turn into a disaster.

Recognizing Different Parenting Styles

In this article from The Wall Street Journal couples are taught that each of them play an important role in the raising of their children. And while it may be geared towards married couples, an important lesson for divorced couples can apply as well: respect each other's parenting styles and make sure that both of you spend as much time with the children as possible because in the end, that's what's best for everyone.

Five Facebook No-No's for Divorcing Couples

Social networking sites can be a great way to reconnect with old friends but airing too much of your personal life, especially when going through a divorce can be a bad thing! This article from Time Mgazine offers five tips for couples going through a divorce of what not to do with your Facebook page.