Is Divorce Coaching Right for You?

The divorce coaching relationship can help you move from surviving to thriving, but it is not a quick fix and is not for everyone.  In order to achieve extraordinary results, you must be ready and willing to work with a divorce coach.

Want to see if you’re ready to make positive and lasting changes in your life by working with a divorce coach?  Read each of the statements below and take note of the ones in which you agree:

  1. I am in the midst of a divorce and could really benefit by having an objective, non-judgmental sounding board to help me cope with and navigate this enormous, life-altering transition.
  2. I feel like I am on an emotional rollercoaster and would benefit by having some tools to constructively process through these feelings.
  3. I want to accelerate my healing process, but I cannot seem to let go or move on.
  4. I sometimes wonder how it is I got to this place.  I seem to have lost myself and I’d give anything to re-connect with “the real me” again.
  5. Even though my relationship may have been unhealthy and I know divorce is the right course of action, it is difficult to envision a brighter future.
  6. I could really benefit by learning some tools to effectively communicate with my ex-spouse during and after the divorce.
  7. I want to develop an effective and sustainable co-parenting strategy with my ex that will support the needs of our children and not harm them in any way.
  8. I am ready to explore, understand and take responsibility for my part in what went wrong in my marriage so as not to repeat the same pattern in future relationship(s).
  9. I am ready to explore new ways of looking at my life and the many possibilities available to me.
  10. I am ready to take action to gain confidence, clarity and direction towards creating a happy and fulfilling new life.
  11. I am ready to redesign my life, create a plan of action and take the steps necessary to achieve the life I want – not the one others impose on me.
  12. I can benefit from someone who will support and encourage me and help me create a plan and stay on track.

Scoring:

Traffic Light

If you agreed with 4 or less of these statements – you are not quite ready for divorce coaching.

If you agreed with 5-7 of the statements – divorce coaching could help you look at your life from a different viewpoint as well as help you develop a plan to change what it is that you would like to change.  However, the idea of divorce coaching may seem intimidating or “not for you” so if you decide to work with a divorce coach now, you should decide and commit that you will take the necessary action for your benefit, or you will not make life-changing improvements.

If you agreed with 8 or more of the statements – you are ready to work with a divorce coach right now!  You are willing to do whatever it takes to heal, move forward and start creating your new life – the life you deserve and desire.

 

Ready to gain confidence, clarity and create a path forward?

Call us today at (877) 732-6682 to schedule your complimentary coaching session and learn more about how working with a divorce coach can benefit you.